Wednesday, December 29, 2010

WHY DO ARRANGED MARRIAGES IN SAHAJ MARG FAIL?

BABUJI:

"We are asked by many abhyasis for help in finding the perfect partner for them to spend the rest of their lives with. 

It is a privilege for us to do this and we take great pleasure in spending much time and effort in selecting the perfect soulmate for that person and we enjoy weaving a romantic timeless love story that they will love telling their grandchildren. 

We plan to place abhyasis in situations where they will meet the loves of their lives for the first time then watch as the story unfolds……..

you may find yourself visiting a city you have never thought of visiting before, buying something from a shop you have never visited before,  talking to someone online, working somewhere strange or you may find yourself in any circumstance that you feel is unusual and this is because you have been put there by us to meet your beloved.

When you meet this person it will feel as though you have known each other forever-there is no awkwardness, you feel at ease with each other and after you have met for the first time you find it difficult to get them out of your head.

Sometimes however we see these marriages fail. Why is this?

Most often the people involved assume that because the marriage has been arranged by us, they need not put any effort into the relationship-that it will be plain sailing and every problem will be solved and every argument or disagreement will be over with no problem.  This is not true my beloved children. YOU MUST MAKE AN EFFORT-learn about the other person, try to help them through and difficulties they have and if they reject your help be patient and just keep trying.

We do not arrange marriages for you to give up after a few months if it is not what you expected it to be. Even if it is the worst thing you have ever experienced you MUST stick with it and have faith-you are being tested to see how much you want this union that we have created for you.

For the people who give up on the marriages we arrange for them please remember -we search the billions of souls on this earth and find the perfect match for you. If you decide to give up on the relationship then WE CANNOT ARRANGE ANOTHER MATCH-how could we find someone else when we have already found the person we thought was most suited to you?  This would be wrong. 

When asking for us to arrange a marriage for you be prepared to take the rough with the smooth-there may be more rough than smooth in the beginning but once that period of “relationship cleaning” is over you will enjoy a blissful life together.

Blessings

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